Benjamin Gallagher

Queer Orlando Lifestyle Blog

My relationship with food changed six months ago. Counting calories made eating-out a luxury. I lost 20lbs by focusing on numbers rather than flavor. Food became an equation that solved a mystery about determination. I could achieve any goal with the right tools and mindset. Now, food represents both the problem and the solution of …

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Hello Friends, This week, I’m rereading “What If It’s Us” by Becky Albertalli & Adam Silvera for my book review coming out next month! Until then, here is a thought about the novel: I identified with Arthur’s expectations of a “good” boyfriend. Those ideas highlighted the character’s disappointment when certain fantasies failed to come true. He wanted …

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In “Bird By Bird” by Anne Lamott, the author talks about the nature of Perfectionism. Before reading this book, I expected every piece of writing to become a masterpiece. Novels, short stories, flash fiction, and everything else seemed so far out of reach. Why? Because the product mattered more than the act of creation. “Perfectionism …

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Disclaimer: I am not a certified trainer or nutritionist. The posts I share on weight-loss come from personal experience. Please consult a doctor before starting any diet plan.  I lost 20lbs and plan to maintain my weight. Counting calories helps me plan everything from meals to gym routines. But this habit comes with patience and …

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Boys, unravel your misconceptions about beauty. I’m 29 and still learning about the Anima spirit. Why? Because feminine energy helps me create art. Make up words with the sound of colors. Your perception will challenge the status quo. Soon the world will know about the power of your imagination. This picture acknowledges the change I …

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